READ THESE PERSONAL TESTIMONIES FROM DR. BUTKINS' CLIENTS
"Dr. Butkins played an integral part in my recovery from alcoholism and drug addiction. He provided me with knowledge about the disease of addiction and taught me how to overcome the triggers that would lead me to go out and use or drink. Dr. Butkins is a very knowledgeable, respectable, and professional counselor. He truly cares for his clients and you can tell from the minute you first meet him that he is a man who has genuine concern for the addict and is willing to do what it takes to help you. I am forever grateful to Dr. Butkins for teaching and giving me the tools necessary to maintain my recovery from alcohol and substance abuse." John - Orlando, FL January 2009
“I met Dr. Butkins when I went to a counseling session with my alcoholic husband about 2.5 years ago. He is a highly skilled professional and is very knowledgeable on the disease of alcoholism and its affect upon the families of alcoholics. When we met, I was sick with worry and fear, angry, and unhappy. Living each day in fear of what awful thing would happen next, both my mental and physical health were beginning to suffer. When my husband went off to a rehabilitation center, I continued to see Dr. Butkins. As he challenged my thinking and attitudes and encouraged me to recognize and deal with my feelings, my mind began to open and allow me to look at life situations and the disease of alcoholism in ways that would never have occurred to me on my own. He sent me to Al-Anon where I found other people affected by a loved one’s alcoholism that were working the 12 Steps and willing to help me in my recovery. Today, there is less worry and fear in my life and more serenity. I know that Dr. Butkins’ skill, wisdom, and compassion guided me to this better way of living. I will be forever grateful.”Karen, Lake Mary, Florida
"Dr. Pete probably saved my life 7 months ago when I came to him in October, 2005. He has a great talent in evaluating problems and making you aware of them. He has helped me turn my life around and helped me see things about myself that I have been able to work on; he also helped me help others. It is the best money I have spent in many years. Thank you for being there for me." Richard A. March, 2006 "Dr. Butkins has been treating me since I was in middle school; later on at 19, (he helped me again) I had to see someone I felt comfortable with. He talks to me like a friend, not a doctor. I choose him over any other (counselor) because I look forward to seeing him; he’s just like one of my own friends. He’s very real, but not in your face;he doesn’t sugarcoat, but he’s very understanding and kind. He will help you make progress through anything and leave you feeling better than when you came in." Jerry K. April 2006 "Dr. Butkins is the best thing that ever happened to me. I would have been dead a long time ago if it were not for him. I drank way too much and wanted to die. He has brought me through a lot; because of him I can handle anything and I love myself today." Janie D. April, 2006
"Dr. Peter Butkins has provided much needed support and direction during emotional turmoil in my life." Ken H. - Longwood, FL April, 2006
"Dr. Butkins is an amazing guy. He has helped me so very much. When I first came to him I was ready to give up on life. With his help and guidance I pulled myself up. I’m now accepting a full paid scholarship to Stetson. Dr. Butkins saved my life. Thanks for everything." Ann A. - Orlando, FL April, 2006
One way to understand compulsions as opposed to addictions in alcoholic/addict families is by the different "soft addictions" or compulsions that manifest. These range from gambling to eating disorders to spending, sex, or any substitute for a Higher Power.
These compulsions are characterized by a need for MORE and an absence of a devout relationship to a Higher Power.
All the money in the world; all the cars and houses in the world; all the pride we are afraid to lose; all of the friends and charitable things we do for others doesn't get us sober.
God gets us sober. And God sends us a "way". We are lucky to have one.
Once we get "IN" the program and begin to see that our purpose is to be of service, we can see and feel the joy of God's world. Then we can choose either song. We can now realize that we have been given freedom and opportunity. The world is our oyster.
Many times we hold onto old ideas and feelings about the God we were introduced to early on in our lives. Remember that we can have an open mind and a huge God who is loving, forgiving and 'on your team.'
Now this is a big deal to me. Tebow shows us what being close to a HP is about. Before the game he indicated that it was important but not as important as some other things. He thanked his HP after the game. He did not put down any player on the other team in order to glorify himself and he accepted victory graciously. Lack of ego seemed to be his strong suit. What a great example for recovering people trying to find a way to cope and dela with the remorse, low self-estemm, embarassments and abuse of the past! Example is the very best teacher. What a 21 year old teacher. He doesn't just 'talk the talk...' There is no need to prove himself to another person. There is no 'brag' or immature drawing of attention to himself. These are goals to which those in recovery must aspire. Thanks for coming back Tim. We need Lances and Tims and Michaels and Lebrons and whoever else can use God's gifts to show us what's important in life.
I believe that, in order to recover, we must place control in another's hands. It is there anyway. We get much control back when the anxiety of trying to control leaves. Even Albert Einstein had to concede that he could not juxtapose the planets and that there must be a Creative Intelligence. He studied gravity long enough to know that he could not look at WHY but had to look at HOW. I can't know why I am not floating in the air in Orlando and the Empire State building is not either so far away. I can't figure this out. Neither could my friend Darryl. By ourselves, our tiny brains cannot fathom the universe (or much else). No amount of marijuana or other product can help me figure this out either.
Surrender to win. It breeds joy, relaxation and relief.