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"Dr. Butkins played an integral part in my recovery from alcoholism and drug addiction. He provided me with knowledge about the disease of addiction and taught me how to overcome the triggers that would lead me to go out and use or drink. Dr. Butkins is a very knowledgeable, respectable, and professional counselor. He truly cares for his clients and you can tell from the minute you first meet him that he is a man who has genuine concern for the addict and is willing to do what it takes to help you. I am forever grateful to Dr. Butkins for teaching and giving me the tools necessary to maintain my recovery from alcohol and substance abuse." John - Orlando, FL January 2009

“I met Dr. Butkins when I went to a counseling session with my alcoholic husband about 2.5 years ago. He is a highly skilled professional and is very knowledgeable on the disease of alcoholism and its affect upon the families of alcoholics. When we met, I was sick with worry and fear, angry, and unhappy. Living each day in fear of what awful thing would happen next, both my mental and physical health were beginning to suffer. When my husband went off to a rehabilitation center, I continued to see Dr. Butkins. As he challenged my thinking and attitudes and encouraged me to recognize and deal with my feelings, my mind began to open and allow me to look at life situations and the disease of alcoholism in ways that would never have occurred to me on my own. He sent me to Al-Anon where I found other people affected by a loved one’s alcoholism that were working the 12 Steps and willing to help me in my recovery. Today, there is less worry and fear in my life and more serenity. I know that Dr. Butkins’ skill, wisdom, and compassion guided me to this better way of living. I will be forever grateful.” Karen, Lake Mary, Florida

"Dr. Pete probably saved my life 7 months ago when I came to him in October, 2005. He has a great talent in evaluating problems and making you aware of them. He has helped me turn my life around and helped me see things about myself that I have been able to work on; he also helped me help others. It is the best money I have spent in many years. Thank you for being there for me." Richard A. March, 2006

"Dr. Butkins has been treating me since I was in middle school; later on at 19, (he helped me again) I had to see someone I felt comfortable with. He talks to me like a friend, not a doctor. I choose him over any other (counselor) because I look forward to seeing him; he’s just like one of my own friends. He’s very real, but not in your face;he doesn’t sugarcoat, but he’s very understanding and kind. He will help you make progress through anything and leave you feeling better than when you came in."
Jerry K. April 2006

"Dr. Butkins is the best thing that ever happened to me. I would have been dead a long time ago if it were not for him. I drank way too much and wanted to die. He has brought me through a lot; because of him I can handle anything and I love myself today." Janie D. April, 2006

"Dr. Peter Butkins has provided much needed support and direction during emotional turmoil in my life."
Ken H. - Longwood, FL April, 2006

"Dr. Butkins is an amazing guy. He has helped me so very much. When I first came to him I was ready to give up on life. With his help and guidance I pulled myself up. I’m now accepting a full paid scholarship to Stetson. Dr. Butkins saved my life. Thanks for everything." Ann A. - Orlando, FL April, 2006

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Why do parents enable? Help!!!

Posted by: drbutkins in parenting a teen drug addict, parenting a teen alcoholic, family recovery, drugs, drug abuse, denial, alcoholism disease on Feb 09, 2009

I do not have a child who uses drugs or alcohol. I do not know why parents enable children who use.

I think it because of lack of information, accurate information, about chemical depoendence. I also believe that parents enbable because of fear of the substance and the disease. Many think that it will 'go away' if they ignore it. Moreover, many parents think that, if they focus on this too much, it will get worse because the child will use more due to a rebellious nature. Or is it because of guilt. Are the parents using or is some other adult in the house using? Or are the parents not in charge of the house anymore? Are the kids holding the parents hostage? Do the parents fear their children's rejection? Do the parents feel bad, guilty, about the divorce or the fighting, or the lack of money. Whatever the reason or excuse, parent strongly. Find out your reason for not setting boundaries or enforcing rules. Join with your partner or former partner and parent as a team. What child can overpower two adults? Go to war and win. But learn the tools of warfare. Find out what others have done. It is not that difficult. Ignoring the problem or avoiding it because your spouse is drinking is not the solution. It is the problem. Go where others are that have arrested this problem. Go to Alanon and meet others who have the solution. Find a meeting that suits you and become a member. You'll thank me down the road. Hang in there. We love you.

Love and peace,

Docpete, the imperfect therapist

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A new life; a new purpose - without alcohol, marijuana, valium, opium, sedative, speed...

Posted by: drbutkins in self actualization, recovery, myblog, alcoholism disease on Jul 05, 2008

Recovery means that, because of our experiences with pain and suffering and making others suffer, we now have a chance to help where normal people can't. We understand each other. We listen to each other. When speaking about our disease the conversation takes on a new meaning. When we realize we are talking to another who has "been there', we no longer try so hard to cover up and protect our shame. We can be honest without judgment. Then we can heal.

We can leave this behind when we go. We can leave a legacy of sober and clean living and a warm memory for others of our service without pride or asking for anything in return.

Love and peace,

Docpete,

the imperfect therapist

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A word of encouragement

Posted by: drbutkins in intervention, denial, alcoholism disease, addiction recovery on Jun 19, 2008

Let's beat this treacherous problem that has invaded our world. It is pandemic and is affecting the entire universe. If you want a purpose in life, you can have one. Support every effort to arrest this disease as long as you support only those who are really making a difference.

We are reaching thousands every day with accurate information. This is the initial effort - to disseminate accurate information. This is one of the best ways to "break" denial. Other ways are very painful, sometimes fatal. Let's get good info out to the people who suffer, to those who see it and cry, to those who have it and die. I'm all in.

Love and strength,

Docpete

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